The Venus Grinder

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Ridges, bumps and a curled stem that widens right where it counts, all on one surface built for slow, deliberate grinding. The spikes look like they're sharp, but they're poured in soft body safe silicone, so it's all theatre (the kind with a very happy ending). Firmness is yours to pick, and if you like real pressure, go firmer than you think you need.


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Texture with intent

Every bump is placed to do something, and the stem's flared tip works internally while the rest of you grinds. Smooth toys will feel like a free trial after this.

Strap it, mount it

Comes with fitted black nylon straps (1m, quick release buckles) so it stays put on furniture, a partner, or anything else that holds still. Add the bullet hole and the vibration carries through the whole grinding surface, which changes things considerably.

Soft, safe, squishy

Body-safe silicone that's soft and squishy to grind against while still holding its shape, so it works with your body rather than against it. It pairs well with a good water based lube (use more than you think, reapply whenever), and the intricate texture means cleaning takes a proper effort in the crevices, but that's the trade for a shape this detailed.

Size Guide

Measurement One Size Mini XS S M L XL
Length7.5″
Width5.5″
Insertable Length3.9″
Insertable Circumference3.3″

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Reviews

What our customers say

The recurring praise is the surprise softness against the intimidating look, the stunning surprise-me colour pours, and the bullet upgrade adding a lot to the experience, with many calling it their first grinder and a fast finisher. Firmness choice comes up most often: several wished they'd sized up to medium for stronger sensation, while a few found it too soft or hard to line up with their anatomy. Cleaning the detailed texture and occasional off-centre bullet holes are the honest recurring gripes.

  • 5 stars: 61 (79%)
  • 4 stars: 7 (9%)
  • 3 stars: 7 (9%)
  • 2 stars: 2 (3%)
  • 1 star: 0 (0%)
Some of the reviews shown are from related products the merchant grouped with this one.
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T.T.
Toy of my dreams!

I've been eyeing grinders for a while now, looking at this and many other's sites, and after much consideration and positive reviews from a friend of mine who bought other toys from here I decided to try the Venus grinder in Super Soft with custom marbled colors and the Uncover Creations basic bullet.

And my goodness.

For starters, the quality of the silicone is simply perfect, with a nice squish to it without being too soft, and no smell on the toy. Upon checking the grinder looks perfect with no defects or bubbles.
Then the colors. They look even better in real life than on the site, being more vivid and, thanks to the gold I presume, with a beautiful shine to it. I will say I would have preferred if there was a bit more purple than gold, but I'm aware that these are all handmade and therefore won't have an exact 50/50 ratio. But that just makes the it even more unique in my book!

Now onto the more practical side.

Getting the straps into place was a teensy tricky (mostly because I hadn't noticed there was a right way to loop the strap to the buckle lol) but the pinned video on their tiktok helped a lot. On that note though I would suggest putting said tutorial or a renewed one on the site itself so that people who don't have these socials can still have some help with the process.
Now as most AFAB people I am able to fully orgasm most of the times only with clitoral stimulation and I personally do appreciate the fullness of penetration and this grinder fits both of these boxes just right! Especially when used alongside with a bullet, which is insertable at the bottom of the grinder and gives a nice vibration through the toy (note for the reader: the vibrations will be felt not on the insertable part but on the rest of the grinder).

For the preparation of the toy and shipping the timing was fairly quick! For something handmade by a small team the preparation didn't take long, shipping around two week after the order.

Overall I am very satisfied (in more ways than one) and I will definetly buy more from here!

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M.M.
Old reliable is a plant

I may have found my ol’ reliable grinder. I have been eyeing this one for awhile and finally jumped on it when the free upgrades were being offered. In short, that was an excellent decision. 10/10 would absolutely recommend it! I got mine in super soft, bullet hole upgrade and in Indian silk, strong mint and candy store colors. The texture is great and the insertable stem really hits just right. This made me “finish” fast and strong. I was seeing stars and my legs were shaking in the best possible way. I will definitely sit on it again. I just washed it in the picture so please excuse the water droplets.

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C.
I love it so so much

I love it so so much. As a trans guy with bottom growth the textures feel incredible. This is my first time trying any grinder and i absolutely recommend if you aren’t sure- this is the place to buy from.

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M.
Thickness of the stem is great.

Thickness of the stem is great and just what I was looking for, however the "bumps" on the grinder part kind of hurt a bit and left me a bit sore on the front part of myself. The colouring was gorgeous, this is my second grinder from here and I'm definitely not disappointed.

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o.
Bought Because of Hentai

Sorry for the terrible photo quality and the cat hair ;///;

I honestly love this grinder! As someone who can't really feel much internal pleasure, this was honestly really great. It always feels like dildos get all the cool and interesting designs, so this brought some much-needed fun into my life compared to my usual wand and bullet.

The silicone is super squishy and comfortable. I found that the basic bullet from this site actually feels the best in this toy, but a normal bullet can also be felt pretty well through the silicone.

For anyone curious about the packaging, mine arrived in a plain white box wrapped in black plastic, so it was nice and discreet.

One thing I noticed with cleaning: if you put it in a soapy bath like the care instructions recommend, the silicone does seem to absorb some of the soap's scent. Not necessarily a huge problem, but definitely something to be aware of!

Overall, it's very cute, fun to use, and I'm really happy I bought it. If it's ever in the budget again, I'd absolutely love to add more designs to my collection. ♡

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L.
Beautiful, but...

So, it is very pretty (both look and feel).. AND the overall shopping experience with this company was great!! I purchased 2 different grinders and also received a mystery gift. Unfortunately, the grinders didnt work well for me. It was hard to get things situated and it just wasn't a comfortable (or enjoyable) experience for me. 🥺... the mystery gift was surprisingly great though!

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Anonymous
Expectations were exceeded

Must say I was worried of buying because of the duties on international delivery, but everything was perfect on the logistics side and with zero extra fees.
Now, in regards of this grinder: it's my first time using one of these. And the feel , the look and textures felt amazing ❤️‍🔥 I asked for the silky smooth upgrade (btw I love the smell of it), and went custom for suprise me premium and squishy soft. Thank you!!

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R.
Tras Masc fun

This one's for the bottoms with extra equipment...

Only 4 starts because I usually like harder toys (glass, metal, ect.) But I actually wish I had gotten this softer. My bonus toy was super soft and rocked my world! I think I would enjoy this more if it was a similar firmness.

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M.
Im Your Venus, your desire.

Love this. Loved it when it I voted for it on the design a grinder comp, so glad it got made, colours are amazing. Perfect grind and not too big on the penetrating part (I'm pretty tight - medical condition, which means I always worry these things are not gonna fit, but this does..... Just). Feels so good too, my new best friend, this and the synstal grinder too.... Orgasmically great.

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S.
What a ride!

Firmness: Super Soft
Silky Smooth: YES
Bullet Hole: YES

First of all, look how pretty it is! I couldn't be more taken with the colours that were chosen for me. Secondly, this is my first grinder and boy I couldn't have made a better choice. It's not a toy that you just grab and instantly have a go with, but it's perfect for when you have time for a longer (selfcare) session. I haven't tried it strapped to my husband yet, but it's definitely gonna happen. I would recommend adding the bullet hole as the vibrations can be felt throughout the base and really add to the experience. I went for the silky smooth upgrade, it gives a lovely smooth texture and does highten the pleasure for me. Everything in this design works for me, from the spikes and nubs to the little tentacle insert. 10/10 recommend.

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A.W.
Interesting and fun

The Venus Grinder is a fun change of pace from traditional pleasure toys. I chose the super soft and am very happy with it for the grinding, but insertion of the tentacle is a little tricky. I chose the bullet vibrator insert. It is a horizontal slit and easy to insert/remove bullet vibrator. The vibrations are mainly felt on the grinding surface. Overall very satisfied with my first purchase from UncoverCreations.

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my new fav toy 🧚‍♀️

definitely worth the wait! it's the most beautiful toy i've ever seen & it feels so so smooth 🍯 i haven't used it yet, but i'm sure it's gonna be amazing ✨

J
J.
Very pretty

Love the combo of purple and blue

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M.P.
So lovely~

Hands down my favorite toy for many reasons but mainly it’s just so beautiful. I got it with the silky coating and it’s so so soft. It’s comforting in some weird way lol. Love it!

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B.H.
First Grinder, Wet and Wild Ride

Firmness: Super Soft
Silky Smooth: YES
Bullet Hole: YES

This is not only my first grinder purchase, but my first time purchase from Uncover Creations as a whole, and I am not only surprised but mighty impressed! The colors in the pour left me feeling a little disappointed-- she's not as pretty as I had hoped... But, I know that is the nature of these custom pours. She makes up for those cosmetics in every other department.

Not only is this thing hefty, it's a joy to grind against-- no lube required (for ME! Lube and the amounts needed or not depend entirely on each and every different person). The straps are strong, and she holds in place around a pillow, a leg, or whatever else you can get those things clipped over. The bullet hole is a breeze to use, and the vibrations travel well through the thickness.

I couldn't be happier with the silky smooth finish, and honestly, this has been the most satisfying toy I've bought to date. So much so that I've already put in an order for a new grinder in hopes to expand my (soon to be) collection. It's a challenge to get as much fun out of riding toys as I do when riding my partner, and the Venus delivered handsomely with the kind of grand finale I can usually only get with dedicated assistance.

Worth the money? Yes.
Worth the Black Friday wait?? Absolutely!

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S.B.
Finished Texture & Vibrator Hole Specifications

I just wanted to add a review on my order as I'm not 100% satisfied. I've purchased The Tentacle Grinder in the past with the same with The Super Soft Firmness, and the texture feels different, the bumps in the middle looses its shape as I glide my finger across it with minimal pressure. The penetrative tentacle part also changes shape more than I'd like using my hands. The surface also grabs more on the skin compared to the other one I got, so the silicone was cured quicker and such I feel will irritate my skin.

I also think with this model that more importantly that the hole for the vibrator should be have more options when selecting the product. I was under the assumption that the hole would be where the tentacle is would be a small hole that you would insert upwards. However I have a horizontal slit instead under the bumps as shown below. I was confused and looked at some reviews of the same product and saw that they were more like my initial assumption. Honestly I prefer the location now with the easier insertion/removal, and also since I get more pleasure from clitoral than penetration however other customers may feel differently and may feel they're not getting what they asked for. As such I feel that the company should also advertise what the underside of the product in the initial photos in this change or add an option whether they want the vibrant hole to be vertical or horizontal.

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